About us

Since losing two friends who took their lives in 2007. I (Ben) learnt how to bind up the brokenhearted and set people free from self-hatred. Now we do what we love for our Job. The result is that powerlessness and pain get removed.

Between 2007 and 2010 I (Ben) worked in the Transformation Centre at Bethel Church in Redding California. Now we are based in Tauranga New Zealand where we devote our time to helping individuals and training counsellors in the ways of the heart.

How we help you

Frequently asked questions

1What can I expect from you?
You can expect that: We will honour and respect you. We will listen to you and seek to understand you by asking questions. We will not judge or condemn you. We will help you remove pain from your heart. We will help connect you to unconditional love and acceptance. We will speak the truth in love. We will help you to understand what is going on so you can feel in control again. We will offer valuable principles and tools for your success. We will help you to overcome obstacles in your life. We will keep confidentiality.
2How much is a session?
We charge at an hourly rate:- $110 p/h for Ben only. $145 p/h for Ben and Jess together. For women or a couple, Ben and Jess will see you together. For men, personal sessions with Ben are available. If you would need a sponsored or subsidized session price please contact us first for availability. We want that nothing would prevent you reaching out and finding freedom. We often are able to help or know someone who can. If you would like to sponsor or make a donation for this purpose just contact us on our contact page or ask about becoming a patron of heart reconciliation.
3Do you do Skype sessions?
We mostly do skype sessions. Although If you are local to Tauranga and if you would prefer to meet in person just let us know when you book a session. You can book them via the Book Appointment button at the bottom of this page.
4Do you do couples sessions?
Yes. We meet with couples who are in the midst of pain or at the start of a lifelong love commitment to each other. Whatever the state of the relationship we help people navigate toward what they both desire for the relationship. We also can facilitate healing times. In this kind of a session, we help couples heal the emotional triggers that cause disconnection in their relationship. When these issues happen, they can lead to outbursts of rage or emotional shutdown. We help you heal so that you can both pursue love without triggering each other.




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