About us

 
Since losing two friends who took their lives in 2007. I (Ben) learnt how to bind up the brokenhearted and set people free from self-hatred. Now we do what we love for our Job. The result is that powerlessness and pain get removed.

Between 2007 and 2010 I (Ben) worked in the Transformation Centre at Bethel Church in Redding California. Now we are based in Tauranga New Zealand where we devote our time to helping individuals and training counsellors in the ways of the heart.
 


How we help you



Frequently asked questions

1What can I expect from you?
You can expect that:

We will honour and respect you.

We will listen to you and seek to understand you by asking questions. We will not judge or condemn you.

We will help you remove pain from your heart.

We will help connect you to God so that your heart can rest in His unconditional love and acceptance.

We will speak the truth in love. We will help you to understand what is going on so you can feel in control again.

We will offer valuable principles and tools for your success.

We will help you to overcome obstacles in your life.

We will keep confidentiality.

We will help you find any joy and sense of meaning to life that you might have lost along the way.


2What is your process for taking on new clients?
1) Meet
I'll share briefly about my story and why we do what we do. You can ask as many or as few questions as you like. I love sharing about why we care so deeply about what we do. We want to sit back and hear and know your life story, I'll be asking you about the desires of your heart, and if any dreams have died or are on hold.

2). Listen and learn more.
We will then ask you questions to find the roots system of what is stealing joy and meaning from your life or making you feel powerless. We also want to know if there are any other issues that you face outside of our area of expertise.

3). Debrief
Once we understand you and what you are facing. We can then share with you what we hear you telling us. If I have done a good job of hearing you, then we will move on to step four because you will feel known and understood. Or we will repeat step two with some more questions to listen to what we have missed.

4). Strategy
Purely based on what you have told us we will tell you what we think would be the best solution for you. We will share with you what areas we are confident we can help you and how often we would connect. If we believe there are other people more qualified than us in your area of need we will bring them to your awareness. Our goal in all this is to set you up for success. We work to help you build emotional, psychological, spiritual and physical momentum in your life in a holistic way.
The rewards of investing in yourself flow down through the generations; it is love in you that seeks help for yourself. Strengthening your bond with yourself, and God is most sacred, the effects flow down into every other relationship you will ever have. Feeling loved and at rest is the common experience for those we work with. Finding your true self-connected to and loved by God gives us the courage to be seen and known.
3Do you do Skype sessions?
We mostly do skype sessions. Although If you are local to Tauranga and if you would prefer to meet in person just let us know when you book a session. You can book them via the Book Appointment button at the bottom of this page.
4Do you do couples sessions?
Yes. We meet with couples who are in the midst of pain or at the start of a lifelong love commitment to each other.
Whatever the state of the relationship we help people navigate toward mutual goals they both desire to have for their relationship.

We also facilitate healing moments during these times. We help couples heal the emotional triggers that cause disconnection in their relationship. When these issues happen, they can lead to outbursts of rage or emotional shutdown. We help you heal so that you can both pursue your commitment to each other without doing damage to your mutual goal.


 
 

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